Global Ecovillage Network/Solution Library/Learning from failure

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We hate failing and often wish to put our failures behind us or pretend we never failed in the first place. In so doing, we lose the opportunity to mine for the gold that is embedded in these learning experiences. Also, in our fear of failure and the possibility of being diminished in the eyes of others, we tend to stick with the familiar and lose our willingness to risk and innovate.

If you’re not failing every now and again, it’s a sign you’re not doing anything very innovative.

— Woody Allen

The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

— Nelson Mandela

Take time to reflect on past failures. Feel the emotions that accompany these experiences. Make space for these. This might lead to a deeper integration. With support, create a space where we can look back on these experiences and place them in a broader context. Notice insights and learnings. Connect to the original intention and see if we feel drawn to revisit the scenario, in the light of this newfound wisdom.

• Leadership & Governance.

• Mindfulness & Self Reflection.

• Exercise: Facing Failure Exercise: The Truth Mandala – Joanna Macy.
• Submitted by Kosha and Robin.